Love & Relationships !!!

Love has so many obstacles but we still go after it with determination - Because it is a Noble Pursuit!

We long for love, strive for love because it reveals our greatest good. It shows us our capacity to feel and measure our capacity to give.

It can bruise us , batter us , reshape us but we still leap through fire to find it. As there are two sides to the coin even Love reveals our deepest hurts and most deplorable behaviour.

However, unique Blessing of Love is its remarkable Healing Powers. Unless the wounds are too deep or the walls too high, we almost always welcome Love back with open arms.

A good and loving relationship is like a prized garden. If you want the flowers to grow and bloom, you must carefully tend the garden every day. You must place it in a sunny spot, water it daily, keep away predators, and pull the weeds. Even plants thrive with loving words and appreciation. Your relationship needs and deserves your attention every single day. 

An amazing relationship doesn’t just happen. It needs your full attention. If you are passive about tending to the garden of your love with your guy, weeds are going to grow in the form of bitterness, boredom, and resentment. 

Have a plan—take the time to understand what your beloved needs and wants. Know what makes him happy and work to create more of that in your life.

All problems in relationships boil down to one thing: lack of communication. Whether our concerns relate to money, sex, kids, affection, career or any of the various reasons we fight or get angry, when we don’t communicate our needs and discuss our differences, things will inevitably break down. You’ve been there. So have I. 

We are turf-oriented creatures, even with our most intimate relationships. We want to protect what’s ours —emotionally, psychologically, and physically—often at the expense of those we love most. Good and close relationships require letting go of some of that turf, compromising, and accepting that the other person’s needs and feelings are as valid as our own. 

When your brain is healthy, it helps you be kind, intimate, creative, thoughtful, loving, and committed with your partner. If your brain thinking is dysfunctional, it can cause dysfunctional behaviors like distraction, impulsiveness, negativity, selfishness, or unfaithfulness. Clearly, these behaviors will undermine your chances for intimacy and love