They are out there.They may wither be your boss, college professor, business partner, your own spouse, children, siblings or parents.
Most times, difficult people do not realize they are difficult. They think their attitude is just normal.
We may not admit - but at one time or another , all of us have been difficult people to other people.
Everyone out there is fighting a Battle of some kind and people take this according to their Level of Toleration. Some have High LOT and simple take life's battles in stride and some however have low LOT- the pressure spills over in whatever activities they engage in and affects whomever they get in touch.
We need to learn to master such difficult people and enjoy the difficulties:
Willpower to Deal : To develop willpower to deal with difficult people one must like people. Liking people is the first sure step to triumph.
Smile: Practice putting on a pleasant smile. A good smile always arrests the temper, even that of difficult people. So always Smile!
Be Sincere : A sincere heart will automatically show if you live a life of sincerity. Always be sincere in all you do daily.
Listen Well: You must learn the wisdom of enjoying listening.When you are a good listener, even the most difficult people tend to trust you with their secrets.
Be Agreeable: If you don't agree with the opinions of difficult people, just listen and send everything to your mental bin. Never argue. Never mind if they say you are not confrontational. So what? Nobody dies because of that.But arguments often kill.
Praise: Take note of their worth and achievements, even if you think differently and have a different idea for success.
You will soon possess a healing power that countless people need and crave for, the power that will launch you to untold success in whatever endeavor you engage in.
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